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Don't give up on my mother

The situation
The patient's son approaches the physician with a concern about his mother's treatment plan, which has become palliative rather than curative in intent.

Communication issues
The physician must remain ever aware that this can be an emotional time and an emotional issue for family members. When interactions are emotion-laden, it is important to primarily address the emotions before attempting to discuss the issues.

What to watch for
Don't give up on my MotherThis scenario illustrates how when confronted with strong emotions, it is best to explore them rather than react to them. As you'll see here, the underlying concern is not always the one that is stated.

Note how the physician uses the narrative approach to re-direct the conversation. He also uses another useful technique: he relies on the biology/behavior of cancer to alleviate the son's possible guilt feelings, and help him come to a better acceptance of the situation.

View Vignette: Don't Give Up On My Mother (9:38)
Pearls & Pitfalls: Expert Comment (5:02)

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